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Try some of the positions from the sex positions section here or some of my blowjob tips. I find that the key to getting, and keeping your man hooked, is to mix up a bit of everything, and really create a build up.

Purposely take him out in public and tease him all day.

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It might take a little bit, but usually it ends in him just taking you right then and there. Beyond that, this site is full of really good tips that are quite useful for figuring out how to keep him hooked. Cut off all outside distractions, set some mood music, very low lighting with conversation that looses each other in the moment, slowly directing conversation towards sexual desires. Every now and then slight touches for example. Then after cuddle with him in an erotic way. What if your guys the type who WOULD screw you in public if he could, or the type who suggests we find a quiter place not that this would be his first suggestion!

Thanks for your comment. The key thing is to use your imaginationreally think about what you would do in that situation.

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I can give you a few suggestions like in the Dirty Talking sectionbut ultimately you need to develop your own to use on your man. Thanks for your hints and tips. My husband and I are having great sex as a result. The build up usually starts on a Friday night when we watch an erotic movie. My husband then undresses me and drives me to a fantastic orgasm by sucking my clitty. I will reward him with a very slow blowjob that has many starts and stops. Eventually I will let him explode in my mouth.

On Saturday, the next day, we talk dirty to eachother all day. He usually complains that his balls start hurting. He begs me to relief his balls.

I ask him to lie on the bed where I sit next to him on the floor. Slowly I start sucking his cock and gently massage his balls. I stop and wait when he starts groaning. Sometimes I wait a couple of minutes to allow his cock to loose stiffness. I love the taste of his pre-cum. After many starts and stops I finally build him up to an orgasm. I tickle the tip of his pole with my tongue to make him surrender.

I hold his gun straight up and wait. It does not take long until he shoots his load high up in the air. Several spurts are launched and land on his stomach when they fall back. I suck the last drops out until his cock looses its stiffness.

Now I am so excited that I want more. It is my turn to lie on the bed where he kisses my pussy. It does not take long until he has a strong erection again. I ask him to lie on the bed so I can ride him as a cowgirl.

I can feel his long pole touching me deep inside. It is no problem for him to postpone his orgasm now. I can enjoy the ride for at least half an hour. He sucks my tits that dangle above his face. It drives me crazy and I have multiple orgasms. Eventually I get tired and let him take over. I lift my body a bit so he can bounce up and down against it. When he starts groaning I push my lower body slowly down to feel his hard pole deep inside me. He stops moving and pumps his hot cum in my pussy.

This all started after reading your tips 6 months ago. So glad that I could be of help to you and your man! If you have any more tips of your own that you would like to share with the Bad Girls Bible community, then please let me know?

Hi Sean, while reading this post I was thinking, I have sort of a friends with benefits relationship. I would love like sending sex messages once in a while, even though we are not going to see each other right away.

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Hi Isa, Your best bet would be with taking baby steps and sending him some not-so-dirty text messages first, gauging his reaction and then just going from there. The dirty talking section should help!

Hi im 23 and my bf is 34 when we have sex it it amazing.

Watch Cant Make Him Cum porn videos for free, here on lizajdyer.com Discover the growing collection of high quality Most Relevant XXX movies and clips. No other sex tube is more popular and features more Cant Make Him Cum scenes than Pornhub! Browse through our impressive selection of porn videos in HD quality on any device you own. The SINGLE-most-important thing you need to do to your man.; How to make him cum harder than any other girl. Why a build up is crucial to him cumming hard and having a super-satisfying orgasm. Learning how to make a guy cum is actually really easy. I can't make my boyfriend cum, and it's crushing my self esteem to the point that I don't even want to have sex anymore. Archived. I can't make my boyfriend cum, and it's crushing my self esteem to the point that I don't even want to have sex anymore. (ATE) I feel humiliated. I had a serious talk with my boyfriend last night. I told him.

When we have intercourse he hardly ever ejaculates in me. It only happed 3 or 4I times. I diluted what to do. He says he almost goes numb ir he says im not tight enough. He was my first therefore I was a virgin. How can I make him cim in me? The most likely reasons why your man has trouble cumming is that he either masturbates with a grip that is too hard, watches too much porn or a combination of both. The best thing to do is talk to your man about it and try to get him to lay off masturbating at all for a few months.

Nice try Seanbut not buying that line. More foreplay before you give him a blow job, kiss him, touch n lick his body, tease him to really get him turned on. Not just erect but really turned on and gagging for you to blow his mind. Start of with a hand job, hard and fast or slow and soft depends how he likes it. Continue to kiss him and touch his body all over. Talk dirty to him, just simple things like how much you want him or things you know he will like.

Dirtier the better I always say. When you do then go down to suck his cock try licking the head and shaft, making eye contact with him.

Also taking it as far in your mouth as you can, also know as deep throating. These two things over and above your regular technique will help as they can be very visual. Just try different techniques and feel his reaction.

You will know what he likes. Help give your mouth a rest so you can go longer till he comes. You could try going for the male G spot.

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If he likes this then it will definitely help him come. Almost guaranteed. Take a break with your mouth to rest but continue using your hand. If he likes his balls being played with then a good time to lick them, while you rest your mouth. Be prepared to spend 5 to 10 minutes to make him cum. This is in addition to time spent teasing him and really turning him on at the start. Look I never ever cum inside. I can only cum with my hands Now please if anyone can help tell me what to do please?

Because I am tired of hearingfrom girls this is weird Or u r weird Please help me. Sounds like you have death grip. I have the opposite problem.

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I find that when I meet a guy and want to hook up with him, they cum within the first 3 minutes of fucking. Maybe I am doing too much teasing or something. Sounds very frustrating. Get to know his body and be creative with how you touch and please him.

Make noise, let him know you enjoy it and take control. Pleasing him should please you. Find that spot that you both love. All of this really depends on your guy. The best sex for me starts with her being submissive.

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Then I take her, and I make her take it. So, like I said, it really depends on the guy. Some guys like being teased and worked up.

Little lose after Starting g can I put my hand in it or or that bad. Dated one girl that liked too IM me at work and say nasty things. She liked kinky stuff, like spanking and being submissive, but I was always the one that had to initiate sexual contact.

We had sex times a week. As long as you give a guy a reason to give it to you. Just initiating dirty talk, making your guy know you want him, building him up with nasty thoughts all day that lights the fire. All you have to do is light his fire then lay back and let him do all the work and explode. Now, granted, a girl that does do extra things like oral, anal, lets her man lay back while she does the work, etc is a better deal then a girl that just lays there.

Hi, my boyfriend and I have good sex. I only say good because I have problems being able to orgasm. This frustrates him and sometimes we just stop. Any advice would be appreciated. I end up getting frustrated and lose interest. I have to say though most of the time we have amazing sex and sometimes it is all about me.

We can sit on the couch and he will start fingering me until I cum and he expects nothing in return. Also toys can almost always help achieve the big O. Yesterday I used some of those BJ tips you talk about WOW the drove him nuts he loved them so much along with the hand job tips to I used some of those on him, he told me at one point you keep doing this you going to get huge surprise on you!

Sean I have learned from things on this site as well as read interesting stuff too.

I did think to myself thank you sean for those tips you posted HEHE. Hey Sean i was wondering if you could help me out? Im seeing this guy who is insatiable we had sex for 4 hours straight and he did not cum once! I have never had this problem usually with in 30 mins the guy is done and asleep not this guy. I have done everything I can think of ,I even asked him if i was doing something wrong and what I could do to make him go. But if you want him to cum, then get him to start masturbating for a few weeks.

This will make him super sensitive. Great sex revolves around dominance and submission, and using sex as a means to let out your inner primal urges regarding such, often in very physical fashion.

EG: a lot of sex starts off sweet, but when the orgasm comes around it usually turns into a brutal act of grabbing, holding and thrusting. IE: like when they bark an order, you jump to it lest you worry about the repercussions of not doing it. This gets men hard either way. Many women want this, too. To feel taken and forced to be bred, thus reinforcing the idea that they have selected a strong mate. Pain and Pleasure go hand in hand.

You want your man to take charge in the bedroom. Tell him that. Then you get to it and you let nature take its course. Act out being the prison warden at an all-girls prison, and you just caught some prisoner your gf trying to escape. You have complete control over this woman. She balks or tries to fight, then you grab her and spank her and make it clear that she either does things your way, or there will be hell to pay as the alternative. Your mind and your body know what to do.

He barks an order at you, you do it. He owns you. He can do as he pleases with you. Get into the mind-set. Surrender to your submissiveness and victimization. Dial it up to We have spent centuries repressing this to act like civilized people in the real world. And, acting this out in the bedroom is our chance to release that pressure valve. Learning very specific techniques to get a guy off can help enhance something, but you need to first understand what your man wants in a broader sense from sexual encounters.

Sure, guys like getting off, but they can masturbate to do that. Many of these fantasies involve power exchange, where he can be an utter brute and stud in the bedroom while women are just bowing to his will and being used like depraved carnal animals.

Sit down and talk to him about this. Be open-minded. Grabbing her hair and forcing her down to suck him off. That is what gets a guy off. How a woman acts in the situation, and how receptive she is to how he acts. Hi, my man needs a lot of stimulation to stay hard, and I have a lot of trouble keeping him up while I give him a hand job.

Could you please help me here? It could depend on his age, his physical and mental health and any medication he may be taking. Get him to talk to a doctor about it. The replies are so male dominate. I love dom women. No safe words just trust her.

Leave the sake words someplace else and let her take contro. We have to control a lot most of the time, what a gift it is from her when she takes control and you get that release both mentally and physically. But he still comes better and more frequently with his own hand. But one position that makes him feel really good I absolutely hate.

You gotta talk to him and let him know what you need and then work together to find a solution that works. A solution not a cure is to masturbate him or let him masturbate after your orgasm.

So make him feel comfortable, let him know you want to pleasure him, tell him to let you know what he likes and be sure to let him know that you want him to cum. Letting him know that you want him to be at ease and feeling pleasure, is a huge turn on and if he's into that kind of talk, it will probably speed up the climax by about 70%. Jan 29,   6 Reasons Why Guys Can't Finish In Bed Sometimes, Because It's Really Not Your Fault him) can count. And a pattern of this kind of sex can put a ton of stress on the relationship, and lead to Author: Gabrielle Moss. He never comes from oral. Is it me? Sounds like you want him to cum on you? As he nears orgasm during sex, have him pull out, remove the condom, and then blow where you tell him to.

Google for "carezza". I found some percentages on the link I gave: How common is delayed ejaculation? Estimates vary widely. Masters and Johnson found 17 cases out of they assessed over 11 years - 3.

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A representative sample of American men aged between 18 and 59 years discovered that 7. A lower proportion of 2. Continued A lower proportion of 2. My conclusion: 2. Uses speed, and you think that's not a drug? Get him of it, back to normal. He Is Average In Size. Also Masturbates A lot. Share Facebook. Add Opinion. Can be simply the position, he may have issues with sensation or he may have a psychological reason.

if he is masturbating, that will not give him the ability to cum. his sensation scale is dulled. Tell him to stop pleasuring himself so that you can do it for him more often. if he rather masturbate than be with you, then you guys need to talk about that and may want to think about where you are . Twenty20, nikalitvinova1. 1. If you don't want to go down on him until your jaw gets sore, the key is getting him as hard as you possibly can before putting your lips against his lizajdyer.com try giving him a hand job first or straddling him and grinding while you make out. 2. You can also try grabbing his hand and sucking on one of his lizajdyer.com him think about how good it's going to feel. Watch I Bet I Can Make You Cum porn videos for free, here on lizajdyer.com Discover the growing collection of high quality Most Relevant XXX movies and clips. No other sex tube is more popular and features more I Bet I Can Make You Cum scenes than Pornhub! Browse through our impressive selection of porn videos in HD quality on any device you own.

I don't want you to take offense to this but maybe he just can't get off on you alone, maybe try putting some porn on as maybe he finds sex a bit of a hassle. Ask him to be blunt honest with you if there is a problem, you must promise to not take offense, it may upset you but you will do whatever you can to fix the problem. Sometimes you just need to find the right position for him, sometimes it will be a position that only works for him but maybe not you.

If indeed it is that you just aren't tight enough then usually a good position will see to that or you can get treatment for it, Before treatment make sure you try a lot of Kegel exercises google "Kegel exercises" for more and if you have done that rigourously and it's still failing to tighten enough then talk to your doctor as there may be trouble with your muscles that require a series of appointments at hospital whereby an electric current is applied to the muscles to help tighten them sounds scarier than it actually isthis usually works wonders.

Remember before you go to the doctor make sure the problem is with you first otherwise you both may need to speak to the doctor on what can be done to help him reach climax.

Tell him to stop pleasuring himself so that you can do it for him more often. But for now, just focus on pleasuring yourself with him and cumming yourself, then when you feel satisfied, stop and don't worry about making him cum. Anti-depression drugs make it so guys really can't cum. If your worried that your to loose there are exercises that can tighten you up.

Plus it's a muscle it doesn't stretch to much it does retract obviously. But make sure he's sober have a lot and I mean a lot of fore play, give head, find the spots that turn him on the most and make sure you hit them when your doing it. If you really want to make him come play a "game". Akasha Xper 4. I have a similar problem with my BF. In his case, I think it actually relates to a medical condition. I used to think it was just me too, but I came to realize it was not my problem.

Never once in the past did I have trouble making another cum. Talking to him about it should put your mind at ease. There are several reasons this can happen, the least likely is you.

If he is an honest person and values your relationship, then he will let you know what's going on. Some guys just have a whole lot of stamina. Roophio Xper 3. Some guys are tough girl. And that's the answer to your question.

I've had guys come quickly and some take time. Ask him how he gets himself off and maybe he can show you some techniques.

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If you're able to suck him off, maybe that's the trick right there. As for being loose Some are tight and some aren't. But ya, ask him what he does to get himself off and see whether he can give you some pointers as to how to help him come for you.

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You've been with 8 guys in your early twenties He masturbates a lot which probably includes before he was with you that same day He may have a bad diet not eating properly before sex You may be not doing enough advance work Some guys especially heavy masturbaters need to be turned on visceraly, because when they're watching porn they're wiring has been wound up in such a way where they have like sexual A.

D unless a girls hits that spot for them they have to work harder to be turned on. For guys like that a lot of what makes them orgasm isn't necessarily your physical touch its how stimulated they are mentally by you.

A couple of suggestions If you think he masturbated earlier in the day try having sex right after he eats something. Try early morning sex after he's slept for a good amount of time. Always great for me. Alright I want to pull the bull card no man last 2 hours there first time.

SecretsSanctuary Xper 4. I think you have it backwards, I don't think you can give an orgasm, you can only have an orgasm. This said, I think you should stop feeling guilty, if there's been attempts on your part to turn him on and satisfy him, the rest is up to him, to figure out his body is his duty, not yours. That being said though, I have a hunch this friend has some issues with his energy levels, perhaps something is on his mind, or maybe a medicine he's taking, even stress, whatever it is, something lowering his arousal level, again this is not your issue, but his.

There's a book I would recommend, "The Multi-Orgasmic Man" present him with this, you might be surprised at the results. He may be stressed out about something outside or inside of the relationship, fear of pregnancy: I can guarantee you, though, that it is something going on inside of his head that is 'holding it in' ; The best thing to do, if it is as important to you as it seems, is to talk to him about it. If there is one other thing I can recommend it is not to get frustrated if he doesn't have an answer - there is a good chance he didn't consider what the issue is.

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Best, Brian. Or maybe the MOST likely reason is her. Feelinfrisky Xper 4. Sounds very much like the problem is with him. Try something different. Do you suck him before sex? Suck him, act really slutty. Shock him with how slutty you can be. Have sex in a different place. It doesn't have to be in bed. Do it in the daytime without covering. Leave your curtains open etc. If he doesn't come faster, then maybe you should ask him why. Xper 6. Sorry but you're loose.

This happened with an ex-girlfriend of mine. The only reason I had sex with her was as a courtesy, and I did not enjoy it. For a solution you might try some Kegel exercises. What are they? Simple: next time you pee, stop it. Then start it. Then stop it.

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Do this every time nature calls and in a short while it will feel like you've only had sex with six guys, still quite a few but hey you're on the way there! If you were a guy we'd probably call you 'Quagmeyer' and not want to drink after you.

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Show All Show Less. If a girl is not tightit makes it harder for me to comeand sex is not as much fun I can make my Girlfriend come 3 times in 20 mins and I love to do it - but it really upsets her that she cannot make me come quickly and could be going at it a while.

Also, make sure he does not masturbate for a couple of days lol that would help to oh maybe you should find someone who is bigger to if his size is that much of a problem to you.

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